well this guy told me i needed to make my hair 'normal' and then i could be considered 'hot' he was brutal and saw me crying, but continued to point out my imperfections, and telling me what would make me hot wnough for him to go out with me...
this was okay, until i told me friends who are supposed to support me, they laughed. when i told them i was really upset, they told me not to worry, then hinted to the fact he was right. they did not comfort me. they did not understand. it was a joke. and a way to tell me to change without being the ones to actually tell me the truth
He was horrible, he treated me like i was wothless, but yet i find im angrier at my friends. they didnt have the nerve to tell me the truth, they let me go on oblivious and waited for this to happen.
so what do i do about the guy? and about my friends? do i change to siut them? do i pretend it never happened?