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November 19th, 2009

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Shoutout to all my new followers, much love to you guys<3

Andnow, here's the challenge, or #IRLDBChallenge I promised you guys earlier.

I want you to think, and I want you to take a little time on this.
I want you to think of someone you may have hurt or injured in any way, be it emotional, physical, spiritual or otherwise, preferably someone you have known in person.

First, I want you to write an apology to that person in the comments.

And now, here's my challenge. I want you to find this person, get in contact with them, and apologize to them for any pain you have caused them in their life, regardless of how insignificant, or how long ago.

clifford
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Aww, that's cute. I can't think of anyone I've hurt though :3
Except the gurls who didn't know I was gay :/

November 19th, 2009
Kyruu
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Dear Mark,
I am sorry for getting upset at you and telling you that I was going to kick you out of my house... I was upset and I really liked Chris and felt that things were unfair with you trying to take him away. I should've also taken into consideration that it made it sound like I was with him and claimed ownership of him but I never wanted it to be taken that way. I'm sorry that I threatened to kick out because that was absolutely not something I would ever do to a friend and I definitely didn't treat you like a friend that night. I can't even blame it on the alcohol either because I should've known better than to ever say anything to hurt you, no matter what. I hope we can work things out and go back to normal someday.

Darrell

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@clifford That's why I said think on it. Take some time, and think. Anything hurtful you may have said, on purpose or on accident. A fight you got in with your parents. A childhood friendship that ended over a silly dispute. anything.

@chazychazfan Made my eyes water. :'] I think the apologetic nature of humans is beautiful, do you agree?

November 19th, 2009
TheUniversalist
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Dear ________,
I'm sorry I asked you to change. I should have realized sooner that I have no right to do that. If I was really your friend I would love you for who you are. But I will not apologize for calling you a liar. i will not apologize for not being your friend anymore. I can't love you for who you are so I'm done. Sincerely, Robin

November 19th, 2009
Bleed_for_me
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I've never hurt anyone...I always get hurt!
Except for my parents!

November 19th, 2009
Kyruu
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@xJordan360 I just sent it to him too. Thanks for making me do this <3

November 19th, 2009
clifford
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I can't think aof anything though. I'm too nice :}

November 19th, 2009
Bleed_for_me
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Clifford is too nice!I mean it!

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@thatonewriter17 I like this, it's very real.

@shinyouhou Everyones hurt someone before, it's part of being human. I believe that by doing this, though, it is making us a much better person. Try and think a little more, even something insignificant, or a fight with your parents. I'm sure they would love to get a random apology for something that was insignificant in the grand scheme.

@chazychazfan Good, I'm going to try and have an 'IRL challenge every week, or every month if thats too difficult.

@clifford You are a sweetheart, it is true. But you must have hurt someone, even on accident in your life. If not, I bow at your feet, for you are worthy of my eternal respect.

November 19th, 2009
clifford
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@xJordan360 I'll think on it, but I can't promise anything

November 19th, 2009
Bleed_for_me
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same as @clifford

November 19th, 2009
Kyruu
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I'm going to start a challenge too. So are you going to do this too?

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@clifford
@shinyouhou
give it a shot, you might find something you forgot from your childhood. I know for a fact, if I got a random letter from someone who had picked on me in grade school, i would cry.

@chazychazfan yeah, I'm thinking of one at this moment.

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@emillibby ,
I'm sorry for everything I've don to you. I am sorry for using you, I am sorry for not listening to you, I am sorry for not being there for you.
I am sorry for always leaving you. I am sorry for not being the best I could be to you. I am sorry for hurting you.

November 19th, 2009
Kyruu
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@xJordan360 That was really sweet. This is one of my favorite posts.

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@chazychazfan I dated her three times, and every time I hurt her bad. :/ I feel so terrible looking back, ya know? And I've apologized before, but I didn't truly mean it. But I;ve recently gained new outlooks on life, and I felt it needed to be said sincerely.

November 19th, 2009
mhmrachel
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"Dawn, I'm sorry I called you a gap toothed bitch. It's not you're fault you're so gap toothed."
"I don't hate you because you're fat...you're fat...because I hate you."
Okay, enough mean girls references.
Dear Dad,
I'm sorry for saying I hate you and for saying you never did anything for me. I see that you have had to make a lot of sacrifices for me. I was just so angry that you weren't a bigger part of my life. And I thought you were a monster. I'm sorry that I've made jokes about how metrosexual you are, and I'm sorry I called you a little bitch to mom behind your back. The truth is, you only get one dad. And you're mine.
Love, Rachel

November 19th, 2009
ConTORtion
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@xJordan360
Dear Jordan,
I'm sorry for.....you know what I'm sorry for.
But, I mean it with all my heart. I'm sorry.

<3s,
Tori

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@mhmrachel My eyes watered. I think you should send that to him.

November 19th, 2009
ConTORtion
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also,
Dear Leny,
I'm sorry for everything that happened in the end.
I miss you more than you could ever know, and you'll always be my best friend.
I hate how it is when we talk now, its just....its not right. I want to go back and change things. You're one of the only people that I was ever fully myself around, and you still mean so much to me. You're my Lenybear, and that will never change in my eyes. And yes, I'm crying as I write this, and I'm not scared to say it at all.

Loves,
Tori.

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@conTOrtion I think you should send that to him, Tori. I think he'd wanna read that, honestly.

November 19th, 2009
ConTORtion
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@xJordan360 I'm thinking about it, I miss him.

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@ConTORtion well, the challenge is to send it to the person. So do it. Don't worry about your fears, or what they'll say to you. The point of this is to let your guard down, and open up to someone who you have hurt.

November 19th, 2009
ConTORtion
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@xJordan360 Thats true, I'm sending it now.

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@ConTortion let me know what he says<3

November 19th, 2009
ConTORtion
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@xJordan360 I will<3

November 19th, 2009
Qaiel
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Dear Jake,

I am sorry for the way I treated you whilst we were children. I didn't understand the consequences of my actions, I didn't understand who I was. I was controlled by the pressures of the small town we lived in, so that my only way of understanding your difference, was by brutalizing you.

You were the externalization of all the things that I hated in myself, before I learned to accept them. I am truly sorry.

Kyle

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@Marius

You always have a way with words that stuns me, and hearing you make an apology brings tears to my little eyes.

November 19th, 2009
topherlooks
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The squishy part of my brain that gets sad just swelled up reading all of those apologies.

Dear Taylor,

I am sorry. I am sorry for everything I said. I can't articulate how sorry I am. Everything I said was said in blind anger and only came about because I didn't know how to handle myself. You didn't deserve any of it. For me to say the things I said to a younger person.... I hated myself even more after that. I don't know where you are now, but I would like to talk about it. I don't like revisiting that bit of my life and personality, but I want you to hear it. Sorry in text form doesn't really cut it.

Cody

November 19th, 2009
Marty_Mario
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So here goes ;)
Dear _________
I want to apologize for losing my temper
and yelling at you for messing up my
order. in the future I will try and remember
not to yell at you but rather politely ask
for you boss/manager and let them know
what the problem is and Handel it like that.
so I apologize once more. I hope you
have a good day.....Marty

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@jikcody
@Marty_mario

Make sure to actually apologize to these people, typing it up is only half the challenge.
I think everyone will like next Wednesdays challenge, also!

November 19th, 2009
Marty_Mario
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@xJordan360 that was a rather good question:)
It makes ya think and that's good hopefully next
time I will remember before I get short tempered.
ttyl my friends <33 xx

November 19th, 2009
xJordan360
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@Marty_mario that's the point, to make you think, and to hopefully prevent such incidents again. Hope to seeya on next Wednesdays challenge!

November 19th, 2009
emillibby
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@XJordan360 I'm sorry that I hurt you a long time ago. I know you've forgiven me. But I still think about how different things could have been.

November 19th, 2009
kearstin
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baby,
i'm sorry. i don't know how many times i could say it and actually mean it, but i mean it now, because what i did was wrong. what we both did was wrong. you were right when you said i was a liar. i lie through my teeth and do as i please, and i should have been honest with you. but i haven't been able to look at your clearly since i found out you were with her. since you left me for her. and then i took you back. and it just happened all over again. i still blame myself for not being as kind to you in the beginning, when you liked me and i didn't know it. i think it's my fault that our relationship has never worked. you have no idea how much i love you, well, loved you. i was so bitter, so angry, so hurt! i would have done anything for you, and you left me. so i lashed out at you, i ignored you for months, and then i started dating your sibling to get back at you, and that was so disgustingly petty. i never want to be that person again. i let you break my heart, and i tried to break you for it, and i'm sorry, but i'll never let anything like this happen again. i'm sorry, and i hope you have a wonderful future, but after i am done with this, i don't want to be a part of it. i want to leave the past where it belongs, and that means leaving you behind also. i know you will understand, and you will feel that same. i will always love you for being the only love i've ever had.

November 19th, 2009
Kyruu
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@xJordan360 Mark wrote back to me and told me that he hopes we can get back to normal again too. Me and him are trying to get our friend Chris back.

November 19th, 2009