@squintt_ christianity is a flaw in our wold, so is every other religion that teaches obedience and not peace and clarity, try some asian religions, way better.
boys are simple, they really are, they only become confusing when they detach from who will always be, just parts of their personality change and add on to either build or dismantle character.
boys are really pretty simple, trust me, im one, i just dont like labeling myself one gender, as they have sexist qualities both positive and negative to them, i like be dynamic. not being a dick is more satisfying in the long term.