Rant time. Please do not bother reading if you cannot debate intellectually and just turn it into a trollfest.
Something that is really bothering me lately.
'Big women are real women'
'No skinny chicks'
Or anything along those lines.
I mean, why? Why is that ok to say that? If I sat here and posted 'Skinny girls are real girls' and 'Fat chicks are ugly' people would be wanting to tear out my brain with a shark tooth necklace, or even their own finger nails.
I am 5'0 and I weigh 111lbs. I am naturally skinny, I do not undereat to maintain my size. I eat a healthy diet, only eating junk food on Saturdays and the only work outs that I do consist of biking and sometimes yoga. So I would say, all in all, I am a pretty healthy human being. Yet, I have to come on tumblr and see pictures of girls who are big telling me that I do not count as a real woman? Fuck off.
Anorexia and being skinny are two entirely different things and I hate that the slogans BBW are using are making it seem as if being skinny means you're anorexic. As a feminist, obviously a number one issue for me is the media's take on beauty and how it promotes eating disorders and insecurity in women. So of COURSE I am fully supportive of girls who are carrying extra pounds feeling beautiful.
But, I am not supportive of the girls who sit there and tell me my body type is ugly and real men go for women with curves. It is so infuriating that it entirely makes the BBW lose their argument which would be 100% valid if they didn't include those patronizing and bitchy remarks about skinny girls.
The health risks of being overweight are unavoidable. So unless you shot out of your mother's vagina at 22stone then you honestly count as overweight. Being overweight damages knees and joints, it restricts breathing and your heart becomes weaker. If you struggle for breath when walking up steps, you are not beautiful. Simple as that.
Unhealthy bodies are NOT attractive. Promoting anorexia is disgusting so why is promoting overweight bodies suddenly beautiful?
Being underweight does as much damage to your body as being overweight, your body literally eats itself, you get damaged hair and nails and you pretty much erode away.
I'm sorry that this topic is probably very sensitive to a lot of people but I am disappointed with women always targetting other women's body images to make themselves feel accepted.
PSH SKINNY GIRLS? REAL WOMEN ARE BIG.
I'm pretty sure, as long as your lungs are in good condition, you can stand up without your joints aching like fuck, you don't overeat and you don't undereat and you have a vagina and the mental state of a female. You are a real fucking woman.
And unless you have a disgusting personality, no love in your heart, no loyalty and no substance, then you are FUCKING BEAUTIFUL.
I haven't checked in for a while, but now since I'm free from studying and now just working that is gonna change. I have so much free time I have no clue what to do even do with it.
I challenge myself to do nothing but be POSITIVE and to try and spread happiness and positivity on dailybooth instead of boothing about things that have upset me. So.
Ignore all negative previous posts of mine and let's start afresh.
I always thought I cope better out of relationships than in them. However, every time I'm single I end up wishing for a relationship that doesn't exist.
I never knew it was so difficult to find somebody who I could call a faggot before and after I kiss them, who will talk to me about serious things and then nonsense things. Who doesn't feel weird that once they have a title of my boyfriend or girlfriend then they are MY ONE and I would give my life for them. Somebody who believes great sex is as important as great communication. Somebody who is liberal, who is never negative and wants to go on an adventure with me every day. Who I can cuddle and call them nicknames like treacle.
Just somebody to experience life with, nothing heavy, nothing over the top. Nothing crazy and intense. Just straight up simple love that's strong enough to get through all the bad times we might have.
Because I can't be bothered to take a picture of my face
It's 1am and I'm ready for sleepybyes
But I thought I should actually start boothing every night.
So, have this really rough drawing/painting of Alice in Wonderland with vodka and tattoos.
It's just something I'm drawing up for the sake of drawing. I might make it into a bag though or a t-shirt.
Good night, lovely people.
