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So i guess we can all blame those people, those things, & events in time, for making us the people we are or have become. But really, bad things happen to everybody, & there will always be someone to blame. And i know that some people have it worse then others, but sometimes perspective is irrelevant. Because you should never disregard the weight of importance of something to someone, simply because it seems of less importance then yours or someone elses problem. I know that when i have kids and they are sad i will never be the parent who tells them to shutup because there are children starving in China or anything like that. Because these things don't change the fact that they are sad. & even if someone out there has it a lot worse, that doesn't change the fact that you have what you have. Good and bad. It's just different...So even though sometimes perspective is good, i think the only perspective you can have is to just really be there. Because it's okay to feel things. And be who you are about them. There is no reason to be apologetic for the person you are & in light of all of this we should also always acknowledge that we are in control of here, now, & everything beyond. And problems of the past definitely do not & should not dictate our future.....