So...my grandma on my dad's side came and surprise visited me today (with 4 of her sorority sister from back in the day), only got 2 hours or so to spend with them. Anyway, I showed them around campus and we got some tea together. Near the end the women went to visit their equivalent sorority chapter at my school and left me and their male friend in the car.
He vaguely asked about my sexuality (he'd already made it clear he was gay as well) and I told him the truth (as I hadn't even attempted telling this side of grandparents about it since theyre upstanding conservative folk dontcha know :P) He let me know a few moments after that my grandmother has been around "the scene" and adores him and teases him about cute guys walking around. So he pretty much gave me confirmation that my grandmother would be more than accepting. I didn't have a moment alone to talk with her about it, but I honestly had never pegged her as a supporter before.
This is a really big thing for me, as I had already been preparing inevitably lose contact with that side of the family once the secret was out. Heh, guess my mother really is the odd one out here :]