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March 13th, 2010

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18:18 It's only a theory . .

Girls get called sluts if they sleep around because its easy for them to get sex, so if they go round sleeping with heaps of people, its easy for them to do so, because guys are (stereotypically) desperate for sex.

Guys don't get called sluts (half as much) because its harder for them to get sex, because girls usually want to get to know them so the guy has to work at it.

EG. If a guy went up to a girl and said "Wanna have sex?" he'd probably get a slap. If a girl went up to a guy and was like "Wanna have sex?" he'd be like HELL YES!

If you're subscribed to Ray William Johnson's BreakingNYC channel then you'll have seen him talk about this, which is where I got it from.

I really like this theory and kind of completely agree with it.

Thoughts?

EDIT TO THOSE OF YOU WHO SAY ITS A GENERALISATION: WHAT I MEANT WAS, THIS RULE APPLIES TO GIRLS IF THEY GET CALLED SLUTS, NOT ME SAYING ALL GIRLS WHO SLEEP AROUND ARE SLUTS, AND GUYS IF THEY TRY HARD TO GET SEX, NOT JUST ALL GUYS!

zoomswhizzkid
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I agree with ur notion and yes....i do want to have sex.

March 13th, 2010
notwalle
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If a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, he is a legend.
When a girl sleeps around she is called a slut.

People are like locks, if you have a shit ton of keys work for one lock, it's a shitty lock.
If only ONE key works for one lock, that makes it a damn good lock.

March 13th, 2010
brillotits
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Some psychologists did a study where males approached females and asked either "do you want to come back to mine(for sex;)" "let's go to lunch" and summink else
and none of the girls went back but 76% said yeh to lunch

:)

March 13th, 2010
gossipguy17
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It's a generalisation ... not everyone is like this.

March 13th, 2010
kristelarr
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Woah, that made a lot of sense...mmmm, theories are mind boggling!

March 13th, 2010
topherlooks
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@gossipguy17 ahaha your face is great

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@kristelarr hahaha yeah :)

@gossipguy17 well its not really a generalisation so much as a theory that usually applies to most people, and most people's thoughts on eachother when it comes to sex.

@Seaneth hahahahh! well that doesnt surprise me!

@notwalle you are wise :) thats so true

@zoomswhizzkid hahaha! :P

March 13th, 2010
Castaa
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It's related to that. The cost and responsibility of a women getting pregnant is more than a man's fathering a child. Men can have literally dozens of children with different partners. Women can only have a fraction of that. So women need to be picker in who they do and do not sleep with.

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@Castaa true, true, all very true. interesting point.

March 13th, 2010
Patriciareee
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its a social norm thing. like every other term like "bitch" "gay", we created this sigmas and it probably will continue on like this for many years to come.

March 13th, 2010
olaf
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I completely agree with this!

March 13th, 2010
Aziz
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its so fucking complicated.
guys think wiith their penises. (stereotypically ofc)

personally. i wouldnt judge a person with the amount of whoring.
but I would advice them to wear protection
heh

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@Aziz hahahahah yeah! no i dont tend to judge people on whoring unless i "know what theyre like" eg sluts in my school. hahaha :P

@olaf hurrah! :D

@Patriciareee yeah it really is. straaaanggee stuff!

March 13th, 2010
crimsong19
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I haven't seen that video yet, but ... well ... @castaa has a good point. Men can go bed-hopping while women have to deal for 9 months and longer, caring for the product of said bed-hop.

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@crimsong19 yeeahhh. we have so much more to think about! hahaha

March 13th, 2010
Aziz
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fuck those bitches.
meh
lets drink tea till we pass out.

March 13th, 2010
Aziz
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come hurrr

March 13th, 2010
Aziz
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March 13th, 2010
LennieG
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i like this lots :)
yep yep

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@LennieG :)

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@aziz

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@aziz

March 13th, 2010
Aziz
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http://12seconds.tv/v/KSKBI
i wont get a life

March 13th, 2010
kristelarr
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@MartyToes
:D

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@aziz http://12seconds.tv/v/CWVMA

March 13th, 2010
notwalle
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http://12seconds.tv/v/9QTE2 Boo

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@notwalle

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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headaches suck

March 13th, 2010
notwalle
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@Martytoes Amen

March 13th, 2010
vivrelibre
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I think the general idea makes sense, but it depends
my group of friends isn't like that and I'm glad!
ps hiiiiiiii meezy you look all glittery and galactic today

March 13th, 2010
sarahfanciesyou
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oh this is so true! *recites to memory so she can quote later*

p.s. i like how you have fairy lights up in your house :)

March 13th, 2010
I_Blame_The_Sun
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when you're in high school this shit is monumental

get into your 20s and people care less about it

I've found that married women and insecure guys that need to feel special when they fuck are more obsessed than the rest of society

March 13th, 2010
I_Blame_The_Sun
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that's hard to see, you can see it in an easier to read format here
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_0X1ggm5ZqsA/SzOqzB47bLI/AAAAAAAACzs/IoxoSay5ZBM/s1600-h/enlightenment.jpg

March 13th, 2010
Albus
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I think it is a good theory, and so true!
Being a high school student I see a lot of this crap go down.
One of my friends has had sex with two guys and she gets called a slut but one of my guy friends has had sex with heaps of girls, more than ten and he is a legend.
It's not right.

March 13th, 2010
hemma
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i was wondering where i heard that before haha

March 13th, 2010
kisswithatear
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its one of the many things I've learnt at university, infact I've learnt more about people than I have about my course which is a little weird...

it's a student lifestyle I guess :)
Although I've never asked a guy for sex... so I dont really know...

March 13th, 2010
toriface
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Obviously you get those few that don't fit into that group, but for the most part I agree.

March 13th, 2010
simply_ads
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I was reading this and thinking 'wow, this girl has just totally ripped off RayWJ.' Then I read the end lol.

I don't like the word slut for either boys or girls. In my opinion once old enough to be responsible and sensible about sex, the number of partners is not important at all. Not everyone is lucky enough to find someone for a long lasting relationship and do end up sleeping with numerous people.

March 13th, 2010
ODDBALL
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I disagree with this - if there are women who are willing to sleep with loads of men, then how is it harder for men to get sex? Both sexes are as bad as each other; the only reason men get away with it is because of out-dated attitudes. It's the kind of thinking that makes giving birth to a boy a celebration and a girl a disappointment. :( I agree that people tend to be tougher on females because they have to deal with the physical consequences of pregnancy, but the only reason males get away with it is due to an accepted lack of shared responsibilty. Also, aren't men just as likely to have STIs, hence making them equally as 'dirty'? I do not like the word 'slut', but if a woman is one then her male counterpart must be one too.

March 13th, 2010
LaLaLauryn
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so true, and unfair.

March 13th, 2010
Sazmerelda
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I think this is sort of true, but I think it's based on the generalisation that men want sex more than women. Which isn't necessarily true...

In other news, I thought you had 'shopped a blurred picture of someone looking down at their baby in that picture... I am now concerned about my subconscious O.o

March 13th, 2010
GeeIsMe
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FACT!

March 13th, 2010
MartyToes
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@GeeIsMe EXZUNCTLY

@Sazmerelda yeah but what i meant was, it applies to men and women who get called sluts or men who don't but do the same things that the women who get called sluts do. not just all men and women hahah! PAHHA! im rather concerned as well!

@LaLaLauryn yeeaahh :\\

@ODDBALL well there are always some women who are total whores but if a man doesn't come across that woman and he is a man who is desperate for sex, then he would probably have to "get to know" the woman, stereotypically. obviously this doesn;t happen in ALL cases but i meant that women who get called sluts, this is why. it doesnt necessarily apply to both parties because the man or woman may have slept with more people in a certain amount of time than the other, or whatever.

@ads89 hahahah im glad you read that last bit! no i don't like the word slut, but you understand what i mean? i guesssss so but i still think if you just sleep with a ton of people because you can then its a little bit over self indulgent.

@toriface yeahhh i wasn't really saying that all men and women are like this, i was just saying it applies to men and women who get called sluts or men who don't but do the same things that the women who get called sluts do. not just all men and women!

@kisswithatear hahahah! yeahhh.

@hemma ahahh

@NathanSt haha! so truuuuee! hahahah good picture.

@sarahfanciesyou hahahahahahah!! thanks :P

@vivrelibre yeeahhh no not everyone is the same but people who get called sluts, i think this applies to. haha! yeah yeah yeah i am i am.

March 14th, 2010
simply_ads
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@martytoes
Oh yeah, I know what you mean. If for example my housemate brings back a girl every other night and never has any intention of seeing any of them again then I'll happily call slut.
But Other than that I don't think a healthy sex life (as long as practised safely) is such a bad thing.

March 14th, 2010
Sazmerelda
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Ok yeah, I get you :)
I know several guys who have a reputation for being man sluts, though, and I don't think people exactly admire them for it lol
Though this might be just at my uni, and uni isn't exactly an accurate representation of normal life XD

March 14th, 2010
vivrelibre
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sluts sluts sluts sluts
ahhahaha
I only know a few people who sleep around like that
and I don't think they get called sluts
but I think they're sluts
hrm

March 14th, 2010
Diceman
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I get called a slut anyway.

March 14th, 2010
morningdew
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i was kinda confused but you seemed to have got it right haha :P!

March 14th, 2010
Superdan09
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What kind of guy would say yes if a random girl came up and asked him??
haha the bad kind but yeahh..

March 16th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@MartyToes
The girls with the brains are the only good kind.
The girls with self confidence are the only trouble makers.
The girls with all the boys, has found a liking to sex.
The boy, who -more socially acceptable (thus a stereotype)- is able to admit liking sex, is then a barbarian.
Stereotypes are great.

If a girl ran up to me and asked for sex, you have to take in mind who the girl is (seeing as the guy is me in this scenario).
If a guy ran up to a girl and asked for sex, you have to take in mind who the guy is (as well as the girl).
Different outcomes for different people.

Sounds to me someones a tad ignorant.
There are variables, miss. Try and be aware of them.

March 17th, 2010
MartyToes
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@JetJunkie i KNOW that not every single person in the world is like this!!!!! like i said, its only a theory, im just saying that this rule applies to people who GET called sluts, im not saying ALL GIRLS WHO SLEEP WITH LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE SLUTS. of COURSE its a generalisation. thanks a bunch for saying im ignorant, its not even MY theory its someone else's. ofcourse im aware that different people have different outcomes, i dont think that everyone in the world is the same!

March 17th, 2010
MartyToes
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@Superdan09 hahahahahahah its a generalisation

@morningdew hahaha :D

@Diceman ahhaha yeah obviously some guys do get called sluts :P

March 17th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@MartyToes
You said you completely agree with the statement, as saying girls who have sex with a lot of people are sluts, while males are just sex-driven barbarians.

And please, miss, don't take what I say to heart.
I'm not here to be a jerk, miss.
Just think of me as a random input comment.
If need be think of me as an Jackass.

March 17th, 2010
MartyToes
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@JetJunkie no i didn't say that i agreed that all girls who sleep around are sluts. i agree that girls who sleep around GET CALLED sluts. obviously this isn't always true. "Girls get called sluts if they sleep around" see? ALSO i have clearly put "stereotypically" in brackets DELIBERATELY so people wouldn't think i thought this about everyone! ofcourse i don't think of you as a random input comment, you're a person with your own views and thats how i see you but you obviously havent read my blurb properly because ive tried to make it clear that its stereotyping and a generalisation and a theory and yet you still have the cheek to be incorrectly pedantic and call me ignorant

March 17th, 2010
ODDBALL
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@JetJunkie Beware of the Warrior Worrier! I'm just a sidekick - what do you think @MartyToes can do to you?! Mwahahaha.

I don't like stereotypes, but your comments are uncalled for.

March 17th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@ODDBALL
@MartyToes

Goodness, I shall leave then if you people are getting so worked up.
It's not too often someone debates with me on here.
My comments are usually too small to even read.

Goodbye, miss.
Goodbye, oddball. Followed you.

March 17th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@MartyToes

Also, me being a jerk aside. Had fun. ;P

March 17th, 2010
ODDBALL
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@JetJunkie It wasn't meant to be a harsh response to your comments but still, a follow is kind of a strange result. An unnecessary but nice action... just don't expect anything interesting, I sit firmly in the land of monotony. :p

March 17th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@ODDBALL
Actually, I coincidently followed you maybe 25 minutes before this.

@MartyToes
Also followed you.
For inciting what should happen more here.

March 17th, 2010
MartyToes
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@JetJunkie you should expect people to get worked up if you say something like that to them, considering you completely miss-read my blurb and then insulted me.

March 18th, 2010
JetJunkie
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@MartyToes
Sorry, miss.
For causing you any trouble.

March 18th, 2010