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So, we all know there will always be people more attractive than us and people less attractive than us. Despite this knowledge, we can’t be satisfied with ourselves. We always strive to look like the more attractive people. We think if we can only have “his stomach” or “her boobs” then we’ll feel better about ourselves. Yet, when we do get there, we realize it’s not enough, that it doesn’t make us feel better about ourselves at all because there is still something more beautiful out there to strive for. If only we can have “her teeth” or “his hair” then we’ll finally feel better about ourselves. It’s like climbing a ladder that leads to nowhere.
Why do we do this to ourselves? Beauty isn’t the way to satisfaction because beauty is fluid and constantly changing and consequently we are always searching and failing. Beauty is not concrete. The only thing concrete is confidence. Until we can relinquish everyone else's idea of beauty and start embracing our own, we will never be satisfied. We all have our own beautiful qualities and unique features that we should focus on instead of the features we think we should have or would need to feel good about ourselves. Everything we need to feel good about ourselves is already there, hidden under the fear, inadequacy and shame.
I'm sure it will take much longer for me to believe this than it took for me to write it.June 7th, 2011
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hello.
lately all i'm thinking about while driving to work is to simply not stop and continue driving and driving and droving...
direction south of course until i can lose that scarf and jacket...
i'd arrive to final destination when my front wheels touches the beach and i can dig my toes into the sand and run towards the ocean...
also, i've been watching a bunch of road trip related movies.March 3rd, 2011
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Who wants to see a return of.... #NAKEDFRIDAY ?
=DFebruary 25th, 2011
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I lost my ring, I miss my ring. I'm on the quest to buy a new ring.
People said it made me look trashy, but you know what? I don't even care.
I hurt myself today, I need to go fix myself now. Wouldn't those words be funny if I was a boy? haha fix myself.
I don't remember what your mouth tastes like, it keeps me up at night as I try and hold the flavor in my mind.
I don't remember what your back feels like, it keeps me up at night as I try and hold the feeling in my mind.
I'm getting worried... I won't remember what your face looks like, it keeps me up at night as I try and hold the image in my mind. - JC
I was told I'm not smart enough to be a Texas girl today, which is funny. I guess that done there means I are plain out right stooped. This week went and gone there done up in kicked my butt purdy hard y'all....I kid of course, don't go and get offended now... or do. I don't care.February 15th, 2011
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Alyssa, I'm sorry I called you a gap-toothed bitch. It's not your fault you're so gap-toothed.
February 14th, 2011
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Are California girls really that unforgettable?
Cos I think Arizona is where its at ;D
Where are YOU from?
Hmm Hmmm? Ekyooz meeeh Can I ha' yo numbbaah Can I Can I?!?
ps. this song has been stuck in my head for the last 3 days.
pps about 2 more hours til my birthday :(((((( why old age whyyJuly 30th, 2010
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so technically this is not a doublebooth because I am boothing on two different dates.
even if theyre only hours apart.
ANYWAY.
OMG
you can't tell but...
I'MAGIDDYSCHOOLGIRLTONIGHT!
and you will never know why
;)
Happy Boothing!
ps my room is dark.July 10th, 2010
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This is me, close up.
Baring all that I am and will ever be!
I am not hiding behind a mask, no funny angles, no tricks, just me and me.
I am proud of me, of who I am, of who I am becoming and of who I was.
Today, I accept my past, kiss it good bye and embrace my future with arms open wide.
What are you hiding behind friends? What will it take to get you away from your past, so you can evolve into who you really are?July 2nd, 2010
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Hi I'm Kota. I love to laugh more than anything in the world. It's what I live for. Music makes me happy, food is my weakness, and LOVE is my drug. I adore my friends and I love making new ones. I'm a really open minded positive person. I try to be the best person I can be. Live. Laugh. Love. That's all that matters in life. ♥
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Veronica Mars, Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewives, Brothers & Sisters, True Blood, Private Practice, Charmed, Chelsea Lately, Strangers With Candy, Kath & Kim, Big Love, Secret Diary of a Call Girl, United States of Tara, New Adventures of Old Christine, The Golden Girls, Mama's Family, Will & Grace, The Nanny, Roseanne, Reba, King of Queens, Rita Rocks, Kathy Griffin: My Life On The D-List, Sex & The City, Big Brother, Bewitched, I Love Lucy, All American Girl, Family Guy, [so many more]
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Official Book Club Selection: A Memoir According To Kathy Griffin [Kathy Griffin], My Horizontal Life [Chelsea Handler], Are You There Vodka? It's Me Chelsea [Chelsea Handler], Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang [Chelsea Handler], Yeah I Said It [Wanda Sykes], I Like You: Hospitality Under The Influence [Amy Sedaris], Girl Interrupted [Susanna Kaysen]
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